Did porn distort your view on how sex should be?

[John Blaze]

Not too sure the best way to put the title, but basically what I am asking is if you reckon watching porn gave you an unrealistic perception on how sex should be? I watched a lot of porn before I lost my virginity and it gave me the view that the minimum standard for sex is to have the girl screaming at the top of her voice, squirting all over the place and with you, the male, pounding her hard and fast constantly for 30 minutes to an hour.

When I first had sex, porn was basically what I was trying to replicate. I went for it, there were a few moans, but she told me I needed to slow down and I only lasted 30 seconds tops. What makes it worse, I not only hyped myself up prior, claiming not to be a virgin and such, but thought I would last much longer than with masturbation, but it turns out is never happened.

That killed my confidence quite a lot, and still to this day to be honest. I am still not too sure if I am doing it right, don't think I have ever made a girl "cum" and basically I suck and I think it's all down to porn crazy standard I think, still think, to be the minimum.

[Oppy]

Man, i was blind drunk the time i lost my virginity, and it was fucking horrible.
It was with a girl I didnt even know, and it sucked ass. And yes, going hell for leather trying to slam her as quick as you can is, well.. No diferent to a wank. Sex is not just about penis stimulation (like pornos can sometimes portray), and for it to really work, both people have to know how to please eachother. It might be embaressing, but ask the girl what she wants, what positions she likes, how quick ect, throw in some four-play if shes interested. As far as being able to make a girl "cum", its strange because I believe that many girls cum without knowing, or simply can't have a decent orgasm. Hell I have seen girls finish in 5 minutes, and then there have been girls that just simply wont climax, every vagina is different.
I could go on forever here, but I'm going to stop because I'm sounding like a damn sex therapist. MY advice would be to get a fuck buddy and just practice with her, learn how a vagina works and just try to last as long as you can (or as long as she can), you'll figure it out with enough practice...

[Oppy]

I was high and lost it with a redhead. We were at her house and got high and a had a record fight.(throwing records at each other) and at some point it led to sex which no doubt I was fucking terrible,tho she is why I can never stop obessing ofr busty redheads. Thus began the string of the drug filled sex parties.

Its funny how when your high with a girl, almost anything can lead to sex.
God i miss the days of high school..

[Riku Rose]

My first time had to be quick as we was both blind drunk in a chinese resturant with both our family's. She asked me to take her to the toilet so I had to get it over and done with in there before someone came looking. It's quite awkward coming out of the toilets after doing that and sitting down with her mum and nan.

[Bluecast]

[AnimeGamer183]

I'll never forget when I was having sex with my at the time, fuck buddy, and it was a like the dam gave way and she just started repeatedly squirting and I just fucked harder and it drove it her fucking crazy, soon after that she got me off real nice she knew what she was doing with her pussy muscles, and was tightening up with every stroke... fucking amazing, we were both basically hosed down from her orgasming so many times and nutting all over the place, it was fucking hot. I need her sex again dammit, but yeah not gonna happen now.

btw I love this topic, and i lo'd hard when i first read it

[Sailors?]

I was drunk out of my head the first time I had sex, it was with a pretty much randomer at the time too and her friends was sleeping on the floor next to us. I threw up afterwards, so yeah not the best first time to be honest. After that I got better and i'm pretty fucking confident in the bedroom now, like Oppy says don't be afraid to ask the girl what she likes. My ex loved having both her legs over my shoulders, but she had never tried going on top before (lazy bitch). But when we tried it she loved bouncing up and down on my immense shlong.

[St. Elmo's Fire]

I threw up afterwards

Literally a "sick fuck"?

[OL]

Most people always say their first time is terrible and that it ends really quick, but I think that so many years of masturbation prior to my first time must have toughened me up a bit. First time was a two or three hour marathon. Even I was surprised it went on that long. Not that the sex itself was all that great (really good sex absolutely requires experience and, if possible, knowledge about what the other person likes/wants, and I really only had a basic "gist" idea of it all), but she seemed to love the sheer longevity of it all.
Plus, having watched so much porn probably helped to familiarize myself with everything I'd be seeing, and everything I needed to know. Nothing was quite as surprising, I guess, since I'd already been "briefed" on the subject for so many years.

So, actually responding on-topic, no, porn didn't distort my view on things. If anything, it helped make me much, much better at doing the deed.

[Kenny]

Just that it takes too much effort to do any position other than cowgirl. Don't like missionary.

[AnimeGamer183]

^ Fail

I basically agree with OL here, but yeah you honestly do have to be worked out/experienced, or YOU WILL get muscle cramps, thats why it sucks going so long without sex then getting back into it and you are sore as hell afterwards. Honestly I didnt even nut the first time I had sex, I wasnt even worried about it, I just wanted to get familiarized with what needed to be done and putting it into practice (she seemed satisfied, she didnt get off my lap for the rest of the night even when we had our clothes back on), my mind set was i'll beat off later if I really wanna nut, I am more curious about learning the tricks of the trade right now lol. Idk maybe im weird for that.

[Sailors?]

The only girl to ever make me blow my load was a black girl, make of that what you will.

[Bluecast]

Orange juice.

[Myles]

So sure I'll tell my first time story a bit. It was on my lunch break in high school, girlfriend of a few months, she never masturbated before, or been with another guy or anything, so we had a few frusturating times where we "almost" had sex (Like I'd get the tip in and she'd beg me to stop). We had tried missionary position everytime before, so we tried with her on top and she basically impaled herself on me. I loved it, but she was in agony the whole time. When she got off me, blood gushed onto my leg, and she ran to the bathroom and cried. So yeah, that was my first time, we ended up having three years of crazy sex though, good chemistry in the bedroom for us, just no wheres else was the problem. When we broke up, I told her her future boyfriends should be thanking me for working her out a bit so it's not so frusturating.

To answer the topic question, I dont think it did, but I understand porn is different than real life. They all take viagra, the girls all bleach their assholes, it's just not like real life (not my real life anyways)

[DoubleO_Ren]

So, actually responding on-topic, no, porn didn't distort my view on things. If anything, it helped make me much, much better at doing the deed.

Amen playa

My first time I stayed over this girls house I just remember constantly cumming all over the place lol her pussy just felt too good and I was cumming before songs even ended (music was playing in the background). Like OL said Porn was a big help I knew what to expect and I'm sure that's what made her say 'at least the sex was amazing' after we stopped seeing each other. She's defo up there with some of the best pussies I've ever had.

A couple of nights ago I was with this milf like literally 10 years older than me, she was only 5'0 though so my cock was like a monster to her lol she litrally came 3 times in one session (after I came quickly the first 2 times lol) but the 3rd i was fucking her for literally 2 to 3 hours I was not able to cum anymore I had to get her to jack me off after that last shag, condom wasn't helping I'm sure. I was so drunk, without the rubber I'm sure I would've busted all over the place no matter how many times we did it.