by MiTT3NZ » Mon Jan 04, 2016 8:01 am
There's a few things to consider...
Most people of our generation (disclaimer: in developed countries) grew up with video games as an option for entertainment. Even more have a console in their household now because someone within it - be it spouse, housemate, offspring, etc. - like playing video games.
Nowadays though, most from our generation don't have much time for it, and haven't for many years due to work, education, family life, or socialising. Y'know, the important shit. Because of all this, "quick fire" games are the go-to because they don't require much investment in terms of time.
Now... I'm sure you know this, and that most of these people play online because not only does it double as socialising, but people react less rigid than AI (naturally) and it's even more "quick fire" than single player story/campaign modes. The majority of these however do not consider themselves gamers. Gamers are assumed to be all about video games. And by "all about", it usually means "all about".
So imagine you're a normal guy (blatantly not talkin to AG at this point btw), and you play some games online. FIFA, CoD, GTA, whatever. You're decent at it when you play your mates, but ain't the best when it comes to facing the no-life crew. Then all of a sudden you meet someone who identifies as a "gamer". Not only would you assume that an online game would be the best way to get to know them, it may also cross your mind at some point that knowing a gamer could be fun in a way, as they could join your team online so you can turn the tables n start winning for a change. I mean, gamers would naturally be better at games by default, right?
Also, in this day n age, not only are we taught not to prejudge anyone we meet, we are - as a society - doing it less and less anyway. So say you do meet a gamer, you wouldn't jump to the conclusion that they're a loner sat in their mother's basement playing some videogame variant of Dungeons and Dragons as the acne on their face spontaneously explodes at varying intervals.
No, the assumptions made are much more logical. It's assumed that anyone you meet under the age of 60 has the internet. It's assumed that if you call yourself a gamer then you have a console. It's assumed that console has been released within the last decade and is therefore connected to the internet. It's assumed that - if you really are a gamer - then you actually have video games for said console. There aren't many major mainstream releases within the last five years that haven't had an online multiplayer component - compared to those that have, at least - so tell me this...
If all these are taken into consideration (which usually only takes a split second) then why would you assume that someone who calls themselves a gamer doesn't play a part of a video game that they most probably already have and have the capability of playing?
It's rather simple with a little perspective, but I thought that - instead of insulting your idiocy - I'd try my hand at educating you instead. I'm just that nice a guy.
MiTT3NZ has received a thanks from: Kenny