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what it means, at least at face value.
as for the source and state of mind of the individual that coined the phrase, who knows, we can speculate?
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Mr357 put it in plain view, sheer clarity. (and it's also a variation on that old piece: treat others how you want and expect to be treated.)
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i see it another way, still protecting from damage.
don't give them enough rope to hang themselves with, for betrayal is a blow seldom recovered from, merely coped with.
be responsible for your OWN actions, and offer help to others if possible, but draw the line.
just because a problem is shared, doesn't half the fucker, simply copies the burden.
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if you value friends and family, don't tax them, or stress them too much, dependence has a severe price.
never take them for granted, just equals.
