Did porn distort your view on how sex should be?

[KiBa]

Can't imagine what kind of effort it took to get porn in the old days, especially if you were into very specific things.

It must've been an adventure.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ilguSy0vBQ&t=06m13s

[Mr. Frozen]

Porn didn't directly screw up my perception towards sex. Sex itself is pretty straightforward, penis goes in vagina and you pump away until you cum. While pumping away, pay attention to the woman and respond to her cues. Once I got over my anxiety the action felt extremely natural. However, the first time I had sex the penetration was not too enjoyable for me because I was used to the vice grip I employed during masturbation. An aroused woman's vagina is nowhere near as tight as a grip that has the force of a thousand suns. That, coupled with the lost of feeling due to the condom made my first experience underwhelming. To this day I have a strong disdain towards condoms because of it.

[AnimeGamer183]

I just read all the pages of this topic

[Kenny]

I still prefer lying down.

I'm such a lazy bastard.

[Henry Spencer]

Did porn distort your view on how sex should be?

Movies and TV shows in general do too, though, don't they? Perhaps even more so. When I was a kid, I always watched movies and TV shows and thought that when they politely said "I'll sleep with you" or any other such, polite variation (instead of any aggressive/passionate "let's fuck each other's faces off" etc) I honestly thought in my own innocence that people just slept next to each other and kiss every so often in bed.

[Thief]

I still blame 1990's sitcoms for making me reverse-racist against black people. Growing up on shows like The Cosby Show, Fresh Prince of Bel Air, and Family Matters, I came to associate black people as being very nice and well-mannered. Now, whenever I meet someone black, I have this perception in the back of my mind that they are going to be a nice person -- especially if they're middle-aged and wear striped sweaters.

[Shenmuedabest]

What makes a guy is registering what the lady is down with. It's not always Animegamer giving her a cold hard FUCK YOU. It's all about recognising what she wants. Making love to a beautiful woman is like making love to a beautiful woman. Cool story bro.

[Kenny]

I still blame 1990's sitcoms for making me reverse-racist against black people. Growing up on shows like The Cosby Show, Fresh Prince of Bel Air, and Family Matters, I came to associate black people as being very nice and well-mannered. Now, whenever I meet someone black, I have this perception in the back of my mind that they are going to be a nice person -- especially if they're middle-aged and wear striped sweaters.

Isn't that...a good thing? In the weirdest possible way.

That's more stereotyping than racism.

[Shenmuedabest]

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[Calshot]

I still blame 1990's sitcoms for making me reverse-racist against black people. Growing up on shows like The Cosby Show, Fresh Prince of Bel Air, and Family Matters, I came to associate black people as being very nice and well-mannered. Now, whenever I meet someone black, I have this perception in the back of my mind that they are going to be a nice person -- especially if they're middle-aged and wear striped sweaters.

On a related note, has anyone noticed that Family Matters is a pretty good representation of what all the black protests have been about? It shows a strong family unit. It has minority cops patrolling their own hometown. Despite some characters being criminal delinquents, they're not necessarily bad people and can be rehabilitated.

Instead of all the hashtags like #blacklivesmatter, they could sum up everything with #familymatters

[Vome]

The semantics don’t change the fact that many people experience real problems with porn. It’s been implicated in things like unhappy and unsatisfied partners, as well as depression, anxiety, and loneliness. Not to mention it completely skews your perception of what beauty is and gives you unreasonable standards for sex with the women you meet. If you’ve ever gotten an otherwise beautiful girl naked in your bed and been unable to ignore the tiny
blemishes or asymmetries to the point
where you have trouble getting
turned on, then you know what I mean. Chances are you’re not a porn addict,
but if you’re a man under the age of 35, I imagine that the abundant access to porn has affected you more
than you realize. Think back to the first time you watched porn. The mere image of a beautiful naked woman was probably enough for you. But sadly, for many of us, over the year we devolve into darker and more twisted porn habits. And worst of all, the younger you were when you began watching porn,
the worse all of these effects generally are.

[AnimeGamer183]

I must be one of the only guys here that knows a bunch of girls that like porn. Thats really all there is to it, find the girls that enjoy watching porn.

[Thief]

The semantics don’t change the fact that many people experience real problems with porn. It’s been implicated in things like unhappy and unsatisfied partners, as well as depression, anxiety, and loneliness. Not to mention it completely skews your perception of what beauty is and gives you unreasonable standards for sex with the women you meet. If you’ve ever gotten an otherwise beautiful girl naked in your bed and been unable to ignore the tiny
blemishes or asymmetries to the point
where you have trouble getting
turned on, then you know what I mean. Chances are you’re not a porn addict,
but if you’re a man under the age of 35, I imagine that the abundant access to porn has affected you more
than you realize. Think back to the first time you watched porn. The mere image of a beautiful naked woman was probably enough for you. But sadly, for many of us, over the year we devolve into darker and more twisted porn habits. And worst of all, the younger you were when you began watching porn,
the worse all of these effects generally are.

And this one is from this article: http://markmanson.net/pornography-can-r ... r-sex-life

[Bastard Yusuke]

It's distorted my boner into an upright position, and at the end of the day, that's all you can really ask for.