okay, that's just BULLSHIT, plain as.
i'm a man, and agree with the reasons you've stated above the quote here, but this quote totally undermines mens ability to make decisions.
damn straight i'm a walking tripod when i see a trashy dressed woman. but it's MY choice to act on that impulse, NOT theirs.
the sex worker maybe in control, but that's just a halfarsed way to put it.
there's NO control on either side, but a CHOICE!
i'm sure of myself, but a line is blindingly clear, and not to be crossed.
and btw, i'm an 'equal opportunity discriminator'....
any man comes at me with fists brandished, walking the walk of intentions (and actually smashes me in the jaw) then he's worth doing time for, me or im!
if a woman does the same, she gets the same level. the borders are repelled...and have done in the past.
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and i wish somebody would just put three in SARKesians 'computer'...or, maybe somebody offer her a sympathy fuck. (tasty by appearance, but i wouldn't tool it for all the tea in china, too characteristically ugly at heart, and that can rob a womans 'sex' appeal in a flash.)
NO!
just becase we get all googly at dangling jubbies DOESN'T put the woman in control.
as a MAN, i choose to act, so by definition, when the motions are run through, it would seem I'M in control because if i don't like what my dick got hard for, she aint getting shit! (and i'm certain it's vice-versa too, but i'm no woman, so i can't account for their wiring personally, not them.)
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typo.